thank you for trying so hard to give me everything i need. i was blinded to all of it before and do now. i’m sorry for being selfish and only thinking of myself by not seeing what you were doing and not thinking of your needs as well.
i want to feel safe in our relationship.
i forgive you for not being open to communication in the past, but can see that you are actively and successfully trying now.
i think you are patient and kind with me. although us trying to understand the other’s needs is hard on both of us, i’m glad we are open to talking and listening to each other now. we must really love being together if this is the effort we’re giving it. i think if we do this now, we’ll need less and less effort in the future.